From Gal Pals to Girlfriends: 5 Essential Films for Your Valentine’s Day
Happy Valentine’s Day, Folks! Whether you’re reveling in your singlehood or wrapped up in the arms of your beloved, we’re here to spread some love your way! While the representation of same-sex relationships with queer women sadly isn’t as vast as it is for men, we’ve scoured the cinematic landscape to bring you some gal pals to girlfriends gems that we hope you’ll enjoy. Despite the challenges in finding these films, we believe in the power of storytelling to uplift and inspire, and we’re thrilled to present you with a lineup that celebrates the beauty and complexity of love between women.
In a world where LGBTQ+ representation is still evolving, every film that shines a light on queer women’s experiences is a step forward. From tender coming-of-age tales to heart-pounding romances, these movies offer a glimpse into the diverse and authentic stories of women loving women. So, whether you’re seeking a classic love story or an unconventional journey of self-discovery, we invite you to join us on this cinematic celebration of love and empowerment.
1. Kissing Jessica Stein (2001)
Jessica (Jennifer Westfeldt), a neurotic New York journalist, embarks on a journey of self-discovery when she responds to a classified ad placed by bisexual art gallerist Helen (Heather Juergensen). As their unexpected romance unfolds, Jessica navigates the complexities of love, sexuality, and personal fulfillment, challenging her preconceived notions of what it means to find happiness.
Where to Watch: Apple TV, Disney+, Star+, Amazon Prime (depends on the region)
2. The Feels (2017)
During a bachelorette weekend getaway, Andi (Constance Wu) and Lu’s (Angela Trimbur) relationship is put to the test when unexpected revelations and emotional baggage come to light. As they confront their fears and insecurities, they must decide whether their love can withstand the challenges thrown their way, ultimately discovering the true meaning of commitment and resilience.
Where to Watch: Tubi (for free), Netflix, Apple TV (depends on the region)
3. Imagine Me and You (2005)
Rachel’s (Piper Perabo) life takes an unexpected turn when she falls for the charming florist hired for her wedding. As she grapples with her newfound feelings for Luce (Lena Headey), Rachel must navigate the complexities of love, marriage, and societal expectations, learning to follow her heart despite the consequences.
Where to Watch: Apple TV, Prime Video (depends on the region)
4. Saving Face (2004)
Wil (Michelle Krusiec), a young Chinese-American surgeon, finds herself caught between her traditional mother’s expectations and her blossoming romance with dancer Vivian (Lynn Chen). As they navigate cultural barriers and familial pressures, Wil and Vivian must find the courage to embrace their love and identity, challenging the norms of their conservative community.
Where to Watch: Hulu (US only), and on-demand on Apple TV and Amazon Prime (depends on the region)
5. Crush (2022)
Centered on Paige (Rowan Blanchard), a student at Miller High, Crush follows her journey as she joins the school’s track team to get closer to her crush (Isabella Ferreira) and clear her name from accusations of vandalism. Along the way, Paige realizes her feelings are directed towards the wrong person, sparking the quintessential love triangle found in teen films. While Crush adheres to the familiar tropes of the genre, it distinguishes itself through its queer representation and its avoidance of drama centered on homophobia or trauma, instead focusing on relatable teen angst.
Where to Watch: Hulu, Star+, or Disney+ (depends on the region)
So grab your popcorn and get ready for a cinematic celebration of love, laughter, and LGBTQ+ representation this Valentine’s Day! Share your favorite gal pals to girlfriends rom-coms with us, and if we haven’t watched them yet, you can bet we’ll be adding them to our list!
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